Male Dominance Should Protect Women

Warning: some sexual/feminine content

What a sickening world it is that we live in today. Men are supposed to be the ones protecting and supporting women, not the other way around. It is not a woman’s job to support a man or protect him.

I think about the way I’m made and I always think that’s it’s wonderful, but when I look at the world around me I begin to think differently. It makes me want to think the functions of my body are sick and disgusting and degrading, instead of wonderful and precious the way they were meant to be.

One of the biggest facts of life is the differences between men and women. It is a fundamental difference defining the relationship between a man and a woman. I love the way my body is made and I love who and what I am as a woman but it is so degraded by the laws and the culture around us.

Men are more powerful than women. Women are weaker, both physically and emotionally, than what men are. Women are the ones who carry the burdens of bearing the children. It is the woman who receives the man into her body during sex. Women do not penetrate nor impregnate men and it takes quite a woman indeed who can overpower a man (without help anyways).

I find this all very beautiful and wonderful, the idea that I take the man I love inside of me and receive his seed within me. It is the feeling of his body covering mine and weighing me down and the feeling of him filling me physically within that gives such pleasure and wonder. I could never find any pleasure from lesbianism nor masturbation nor any other deviation from the natural order of life. It is only in the acknowledgment of the way my body is made as a female that peace or pleasure can be found.

Every month when my cycle comes around I find it precious and wonderful. I’m not really one to reach for the bottle of Midol. I would feel somehow that I’m being robbed. I’m not trying to be like a man nor compete out in the world and I recognize that I need to rest a bit more and simply can’t handle as much stress due to being female. I don’t view my female bodily functions as holding me back or keeping me from achieving. My body does go through phases that would make it very hard to keep on going like a man would. Oftentimes I just can’t see how I could do it. I always have one day every month where I am faint and can’t hardly stand up without falling over. The sleep deprivation comes on schedule every month. Usually when the day arrives I do have some pains but I’m not generally eager to get rid of them. Any other pains in life I would want to rid myself of but there is something special about the pains and discomforts that are distinctly feminine. I know it makes me a little weaker but it makes me feel special and wonderful. I want to delight in what makes me different from a man.

He knows the cycles that my body goes through. I know he views me as weaker and more emotional than him. I love that he sees me differently and doesn’t just see me as another man. He would never treat me as a man. He doesn’t see me as “equal” nor does he see me as some kind of business partner. He sees me as his wife. He sees me as a precious gem to be guarded and cared for and sheltered. He would never let me support him or go out and work. He would never allow me to be the one to protect him. How could that ever be right?

How could I be with a man who didn’t see my weaknesses and peculiarities as a woman as special? Why on earth should it ever be thought that he would need my protection or support? A real man is one who sees it as his duty to support and protect women. But look at the decaying society all around us. Men live off of the support of women. Nearly half of all families have wives and mothers as the main breadwinner and in nearly every other case she is at least a co-provider. The genderless institution of marriage says I could very well be equally responsible to support him, a man. Should I also go off to war to die as if I were a man? What are the men in this society even doing?

I feel a protection and peace in submitting to his dominance. I feel safe when he’s inside me. Is that not how it’s supposed to be? Shouldn’t a woman feel safe under a man’s dominance, which should read as protection? But what happens when men use that dominance for the exploitation of a woman? His dominance should protect me. It is not for men to overpower women to hurt them.

Sex for a woman should be precious. It is a bigger event for a woman. He might hurt her. He might impregnate her. He’s stronger than her. She’s letting him inside of her in a most intimate way. Her body is messy and sometimes bloody. It should be special. It should all be for her husband. He should be responsible for her, to fully protect her and provide for her. It is the woman that brings this uniqueness to the relationship and marriage. She should be able to trust him and depend upon him. Emphasis should be put on her body and her sexuality. It should be a serious matter of great importance.

Why would anyone with half a brain cell think a woman should be responsible for a man? Even if she does become the breadwinner the laws of nature, of God, still apply. Short of using science to manipulate nature (which would still put more stress and pain on a woman and put her health in jeopardy) there is no changing that.

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7 thoughts on “Male Dominance Should Protect Women

  1. Ahh, yes! Great post. Sing it! The world is a bit broken at the moment. We have men who think dominance means destruction and women who think submission means weakness. It’s a real mess, a complete recipe for disaster.

  2. OK, this comment is going to contain some erotic content but I will keep it as classy as possible.

    “I find this all very beautiful and wonderful, the idea that I take the man I love inside of me and receive his seed within me. It is the feeling of his body covering mine and weighing me down and the feeling of him filling me physically within that gives such pleasure and wonder. I could never find any pleasure from lesbianism nor masturbation nor any other deviation from the natural order of life. It is only in the acknowledgment of the way my body is made as a female that peace or pleasure can be found.”

    Wow, this is probably one of the erotic things I have ever read… and that is because it appeals to the true female sexuality.

    I did read somewhere that only 20% of women today can achieve an orgasm through penetration. I think this is because women today don’t understand what it is to completely surrender yourself to a man, and that is where true female pleasure comes from.

    True female pleasure comes from feeling like you belong to your man and that you are completely vulnerable to him but at the same time he has all your trust. You trust him to care for you and keep you safe and in turn for being the man he is, your body completely belongs to him.

    I think this is why you get a whole bunch of sex negative women out there. Because they haven’t let themselves have the true pleasure of surrendering themselves to a man, physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually. But how can you expect them to when men today often don’t have a clue either?

  3. I think this is one of my favorite posts from you. Reading through it, I couldn’t help but think, “I thought I was the only one who felt this way!” Glad to know I’m not alone.

  4. I get the distinct impression that feminists who claim to advocate for women’s rights are ironically ashamed to be women. When they advocate for rights, what they really mean is they want to do what men do, and anything that is inherently feminine is looked upon with disdain and revulsion, like it’s unworthy and weak, and not as “ambitious” and “high achieving”. I believe it when they say “a woman’s strength is in her weakness”. Only a woman has the ability to influence men in ways that only women can, and vice versa. Men don’t have that effect on men, and nor women on women. Your post describes exactly the sensations I feel regarding men, because it’s just so natural and instinctive, and at the same time it’s not corny at all. It’s a huge deal for me to be physically intimate with a guy, which is why I’ve very rarely given myself to anyone. It’s just too bad that in this day and age of hyper-sexuality, this same level of value may not be shared by the man. I love being female, and I enjoy experiencing things that are exclusively feminine, even if they may be yucky sometimes, lol. It just reminds me that I’m not a man, and I love that. I love that I’d be able to grow a life inside me, and develop an overwhelmingly strong bond with the child, which the man can never quite experience to the same extent, because it’s uniquely woman. Even close to God-like, come to think of it. I like that I can feel weak and vulnerable and not have to be strong for the world and maintain a stiff upper lip. I like that I can cry easily and not be considered worthless for it. I also enjoy that a man can physically overpower me during sex, while at the same time being very careful to not hurt me.

    You know what I also have a problem with? When people say “you don’t own your partner”, because it just doesn’t make sense to me. If you are together, you do and should own each other somewhat, that’s WHY you are exclusively together to begin with. Neither can just do whatever they want and act like a bachelor when they have someone else in their lives. If you don’t want to be owned by that person, simple, don’t be with them. Otherwise it’s like having your cake and eating it.

  5. I love reading these comments. I’m a young man, and society has taught me and my generation that to be masculine is wrong, and that to be dominant is bad. That we need to ask permission before even looking at or touching a woman. That we can’t even relax and comfortably take up space (manspreading), and that we should be ashamed of things that we as individuals didn’t even do. So many men are opting out, and anesthetizing themselves through porn and videogames… It’s nice to read some of the things that have been said in here. I’ve never heard a woman speak a viewpoint like this in my entire life. There is nothing that we as men want more than to be that dominant figure, to feel a woman give herself fully and experience with her full body that intense orgasm that comes with surrender… additionally, there is nothing that makes a man more prideful and complete as a person than knowing that he can provide for and satisfy the woman he loves. When a man receives a message like this he feels hope. He wants to be the best man he can be… but when a man receives the overt and praised hyper-feminist messages, messages of gender neutrality and shaming of masculinity combined with the increasingly flitting nature of relationships… a man feels hopeless and empty. Without purpose…

    Anyway, this is a breath of fresh air, and if we see more of these types of comments from brave women in the public sphere then you’ll see more of the strong heroic and dedicated men that society needs.

    Keep being beautiful.

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